change

this is what i read from my marketing notes, "the only constant in today's business environment is CHANGE." it makes me want to blog immediately! change is always happening around us. today i woke up from the left side of my bed and the next morning, i woke up from the right side of the bed. see, that is a change! it can be executed easily but the main problem about change is adaption.

some of us just hate change to the core. i dont blame them for that because sometimes i will resist changes too. it is in human's nature to want to be comfortable. that is a want, not a need. we just want to stay in our comfort zone, with the familiar faces and environment. to a small extent, it is good because you can achieve short term happiness. however, in the long run, you may develop this mentality that no matter what happens, you always have the same group of friends around you. bullshit! people dont stay where they are. they move! who will catch your fall the next time? so the bottom line is break free from your boundaries, be daring to try something new and fresh.

some changes are just too harsh or big to accept them. you keep telling yourself that you will slowly adapt to this change but somehow things are not going in the direction you want it to. you start to question your ability, you cannot find an answer and push the blame to everyone, you lock yourself up in the room, and ultimately you hate yourself for being someone you dont recognize. in life, you just have to learn not to take everything too seriously. if you put in 101 percent of your energy in everything, you will be drained and drop dead by the end of each day. the more effort you put in, the greater your expectations. similarly, the greater your expectations, the greater the disappointment. so just take it in your stride and move on.

we should applause for change. it is something positive because it makes people, at least myself to learn and grow. i love change!! but before that, i have to learn how to move on from there.